ABOUT SONLIGHT
Our saying was, “Sonlight
is not just about music and never has been.”
The music was the vehicle
for discussion. There was a different theme each year. The youth and graduates
of the program submitted secular rock songs that reflected the theme (many
more than could be used). I selected twenty-five songs from 200+ submissions
– songs that best taught the spiritual principles we wanted to explore
that year. Among the themes we covered:
Making faith street sensible
The brevity of life
Taking the road less traveled
Bridging gaps of race, nationality,
and income
Understanding AIDS
Sexual, physical, and emotional
abuse in the home
Drugs, alcohol, and eating
disorders and how youth make relationships with substances
Homosexuality
Natural “highs”
How Jesus’ teaching gives
flight to life – not weight
The essence of believing
– what is it?
Communication
Change
The power of relationship
(with self, stranger, family, friends, and God)
Perspective - and how it
affects the way we view everything.
Taking risks – utilizing
our God-given adolescent risk quotient for good
What we can learn of God
and life from Nature
The lyrics would guide us
into topics, questions and projects. We had special guests that included
Vietnam veterans, family therapists, high school guidance counselors, Dr.
Paul Doering (reknowned pharmaceutical professor- on drugs), educators,
activists, environmentalists, actors from the Hippodrome State Theatre
to perform monologues and sketches, panel discussions with the elderly,
and sometimes with our parents. In 1998 we were privileged to meet with
Sister Helen PreJean (of Dead Man Walking). These are the experiences that
so many say they remember.
The power of this ministry
is that it is ongoing and memorable; far beyond the four years spent in
the program, and that is partly due the music used. One will likely still
hear the Sonlight songs ten and twenty years after leaving high school…sitting
in a car with a spouse or child, when a song comes on the radio. Many grads
have written to say, it takes them back to all the discussions on that
song, and in so doing, touches them once again. Most songs covered by the
choir are considered classic rock, and the beauty of that is that classics
are played well past their time. As the songs live on, so can the lesson
learned. So… the music continues to minister and teach, years after graduation
from the program.
The focus and spiritual exploration
became the heart of this program. Kids would say, “I came for the music.
I stayed for the focus”. Weekly gems excavated from a Beatles song or Dave
Matthews often became service projects and natural spin-off activities
for the choir. The tour at the end of the year was an outgrowth of the
theme. It affected where we went, what we did, what we sang. The evening
concerts were made up of favorite songs from that year. And, each morning
creative students from the focus team led devotions and discussions on
the theme from different angles. Along the way we would have stops that
complimented the tour theme. For example- experiencing a maze on our “Perspective
“ tour, or hiking around Walden Pond during our “Nature” tour. The communion
service then at tour’s end was the culmination of the experiences shared,
the fellowship and the theme.
Sonlight was a ministry and
philosophy that came out of the very “gut” of my soul. It was wrapped around
everything I believed in, and everything I didn’t believe in! My understanding
of young people evolved considerably over the 17 years. I always knew I
had the “church” background, Biblical perspective, and interest in ministry,
but it took the youth to teach me what was most important – who they are
and how they think. I have learned to see “the star” from where they are.
And where they are is not where we are or were)! I am impressed with the
depth of spiritual interest I find in young people but equally impressed
with the disinterest they have in the church. Sonlight (as part of the
church) effectively met them “where they are”, and for that reason was
very successful.
There is a lesson there
for all of us who seek to minister in our times.
Click
here for a A SKETCH OF THE ACTIVITES AND WORK OF SONLIGHT, 1984 – 2001